You’ve got the ring, you’ve told the family, and now everyone is looking forward to the big day. So how do you get started? Probably the most important decision in your planning process (after agreeing to get married in the first place) is to select your venue. You can’t start talking food, entertainment or theme until you know where your wedding and/or reception is going to be held. Even selecting your wedding dress should wait until you know what your “setting” will be.